what to expect at your feeding therapy appointment


A calm, supportive, and hands-on experience designed to help you understand your baby’s feeding and feel confident moving forward.

Before Your Appointment

Helpful things to bring:

  • Your baby, ready to feed (hungry, but not overly upset)

  • Bottles, nipples, or other feeding tools you are currently using

  • Soothers (if currently using)

  • A blanket or anything that helps your baby feel comfortable

You don’t need to prepare anything complicated - just come as you are.


During Your Assessment

Your initial appointment is a comprehensive, in-person feeding assessment.

We’ll start with a conversation about your baby’s history, your feeding experience, and your goals.

From there, your baby’s feeding and oral function will be assessed in a supportive, baby-led way.

Your session may include:

  • Review of feeding history and concerns

  • Oral motor assessment (lips, tongue, jaw, coordination)

  • Observation of breastfeeding and/or bottle feeding

  • Assessment of latch, positioning, and efficiency

  • Evaluation of suck–swallow–breathe coordination

Hands-On Support

This is not just an assessment. You will receive real-time, hands-on guidance during your session. This may include:

  • Adjusting positioning

  • Supporting latch or bottle feeding

  • Trying small changes and seeing how your baby responds

The goal is for you to leave with strategies that feel practical and doable.

If Tongue or Lip Ties Are Suspected


If a tongue or lip tie is suspected, this will be discussed as part of your baby’s overall feeding function.

Because services are provided within Dr. Appleton’s office, this allows for:

  • Coordinated care when needed

  • Communication with the medical team

  • Support before and after any procedures

You will never feel pressured - decisions are always collaborative and based on your baby’s needs.


After Your Appointment

You’ll leave your session with a clear understanding of what’s going on and what to do next. You’ll receive:

  • A personalized feeding plan

  • Specific strategies to use at home

  • Recommendations for follow-up, if needed

The focus is on helping you feel confident and supported between visits.


Follow-Up Support

Some families need only one visit, while others benefit from follow-up sessions to continue building progress. Follow-ups may focus on:

  • Refining feeding strategies

  • Improving efficiency and coordination

  • Supporting transitions (bottle, solids, etc.)

  • Integrating myofunctional therapy techniques when appropriate

If feeding has been feeling difficult or stressful, you don’t have to navigate it alone.

With the right support, feeding can become more comfortable, efficient, and enjoyable.